1. Room mate gone before the 1st!
2. No argument, even though I was baited, I declined, and stated my reasons, AGAIN. Calmly walked away.
3. Reasoned with my child why Auntie was leaving, again, and she understood it was because Auntie was making bad choices, not thinking about what could happen to all of us, and that love means thinking about others first.
4. sub group of the above, was the hug I got afterwards.